For me, I carry the echoes of the people, the traditions, the language.
Show me hebrew letters with grammar and I can sputter a sound.
Show me the rabbi and let me overhear a Yiddish word, a blessing,
that laughter and tone.
I carry the gesture of resonance, a leaning in with that honesty of “my” people,
a pride when it comes to questioning all that befalls us,
a yearning when it comes to obtaining a sense of reverence for life itself.
I carry that loudness of being, and bluntness of expression,
that Larry David way of not letting things go.
Echoes sometimes ripple into constellations of not enough-ness,
of envy, of longing, of this nurturing question of where do I belong,
because it’s not in the swaying of the songs as we gather in groups.
I have always been alone, watching. I am the keeper of stories I cannot credit others with, but that have everything to do with what they have said.
I am a crucible, a cauldron, a pelvis, a bowl, I sway.
Maybe one day I will know that loss does not imply something needs to fill the space.
Maybe I will dance with Her.
Maybe I will laugh.
Maybe I will always know that embedded in my very being, there is an eternal flame,
that maybe I am my ancestor’s echo, and that that is enough.